Feeling Depressed
Topic Overview
Life is full of changes. Everyday events and our reactions to them sometimes interfere with our sense of well-being and peace of mind. It is common to get the blues or become sad when disappointed. Symptoms of depression are the most common medical problems seen by health professionals. It is estimated that feelings of depression will affect about one-third of all adults in the United States at some time in their lives.
Most people experience feelings of sadness over such losses as divorce or separation, the death of a friend or loved one, or a job change or layoff. These feelings are an expected reaction to a "triggering event," and most people get over them in time.
Several factors increase your risk of developing feelings of depression, such as:
- Female sex. Women are twice as likely as men to experience feelings of depression. Hormonal changes may play a role in these feelings, which may be more evident during pregnancy, especially shortly after the birth of a baby (postpartum depression) or shortly before or during menopause. Some women experience feelings of sadness or depression shortly before the start of menstruation (premenstrual syndrome, or PMS).
- Age older than 60. Feelings of depression in this age group are frequently overlooked because the symptoms are similar to other diseases and problems experienced by older adults. Adults in this age group are more likely to experience social isolation. Feelings of sadness may accompany other life events, such as retirement, death of a spouse or child, or declining physical abilities.
- Personal or family history. You are more likely to experience feelings of depression if you have a history of previous depression, an anxiety disorder, or another mental illness. You are also 2 to 3 times more likely to experience feelings of depression if one or both of your parents were diagnosed with depression.
- Medical problems—such as cancer, kidney disease, heart disease, or Parkinson's disease—or alcohol or substance abuse or withdrawal.
- Stressful life events, such as changing jobs, the loss of a job, or children leaving home.
- Lack of family or social support.
Symptoms of depression that may indicate a need for treatment vary from person to person. If you experience feelings of sadness or loss of interest in pleasurable activities plus 4 or more of the following symptoms for 2 weeks or longer, you may be depressed.
- Changes in appetite or weight
- Restlessness or decreased activity that is noticed by others
- Feeling tired or sleepy all of the time
- Trouble sleeping or sleeping more than usual
- Inability to concentrate or make decisions
- Feelings of hopelessness
- Feelings of worthlessness or guilt
- Preoccupation with death or recurrent thoughts of suicide
People who feel depressed may also have physical symptoms, such as body aches or stomach problems.
Because "mood swings" and other emotional changes are considered a normal part of growing up, depression in children and teens often goes unrecognized. Children and teens do develop depression, and it can affect a child's quality of life. If prolonged or severe depression is left untreated, it can lead to serious outcomes, including suicide attempts and even completed suicide. If you are thinking about suicide, talk to someone about your feelings, such as your health professional or a close friend or family member you trust. Don’t wait. If you are not able to talk with your health professional immediately, call your local suicide hotline or this suicide hotline (Canada and U.S.): 1-800-SUICIDE or 1-800-273-TALK or 1-800-273-8255.
Depression is the most important risk factor for suicide. For more information, see the topic Depression.
Use the Check Your Symptoms section to decide if and when you should see a doctor.
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Home Treatment
If you are thinking about suicide, talk to someone about your feelings, such as your health professional or a close friend or family member you trust. Don’t wait. If you are not able to talk with your health professional immediately, call your local suicide hotline or this suicide hotline (Canada and U.S.): 1-800-SUICIDE or 1-800-273-TALK or 1-800-273-8255.
Positive actions and feelings can help lift your spirits. Although thinking positively may be very difficult when you are feeling depressed, try to consider the positive side of situations and events in your life.
Appreciate any moments when you have positive thoughts. The following tips may help.
- Practice positive thinking. Make statements that promote good thoughts. Replace negative self-talk with positive comments.
- Take action to put more fun into your life:
- Exercise. Running, brisk walking, and other forms of aerobic exercise improve symptoms of mild to moderate depression.
- Work in the garden or play with a pet. Plants and pets can be very therapeutic. When you pet an animal, your blood pressure goes down and your heart rate slows. Filling the needs of animals and plants can help you feel useful.
- Visit a friend. Spending time with a good friend may help you forget about your problems for a while and help you see the brighter side of life.
- Have a massage or a manicure, or get your hair cut.
- Rearrange your furniture.
- Talk with your health professional about
nonprescription medicines, such as
St. John's wort or
SAM-e.
- Talk to your health professional or pharmacist before taking St. John's wort if you are taking any other medicines. St. John's wort may change the way other medicines work. In some cases, it may decrease how well medicines work. In other cases, it may make medicines poisonous.
- Do not use alcohol or other mood-altering drugs while you are taking a nonprescription medicine.
- Follow the directions on the label. Do not exceed the recommended dose.
- If you are or could be pregnant, talk with your health professional before taking any medicine or supplement.
- For more information on dietary supplements, visit the Web site of the Office of Dietary Supplements, within the National Institutes of Health, at http://ods.od.nih.gov/index.aspx.
- Take a class or go to a free lecture at the public library or local hospital.
- Take a vacation. Sometimes just getting away for the afternoon will brighten your mood.
- Go to the movies or rent a funny movie.
- If nothing feels fun, try doing something that you used to enjoy.
Symptoms to Watch For During Home Treatment
Use the Check Your Symptoms section to evaluate your symptoms if any of the following occur during home treatment:
- You feel sad, lonely, or unhappy for weeks.
- Your symptoms become more severe or frequent.
- You are not getting better as expected after starting treatment for depression.
For a friend or loved one
If you think a friend or loved one is depressed, you may feel helpless. But you still may want to do something to help. For suggestions, see:
Prevention
Life is full of changes. Everyday events and our reactions to them sometimes interfere with our sense of well-being and peace of mind. While it is common to get the "blues" or to feel sad occasionally, you may be able to prevent feelings of depression.
- Have a regular checkup with your health professional. Your health professional may evaluate your thyroid function and other factors. Many other diseases, such as coronary artery disease and diabetes, can increase your risk of feeling depressed.
- Talk to your health professional about light therapy if you think that you feel worse during the winter months. Just 30 minutes of light therapy each day improves mood in many people with seasonal affective disorder (SAD). For more information, see the topic Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD).
- Maintain regular sleep and eating patterns. Do not skip meals.
- Try to get some exercise every day. Walking is a good way to start.
- Get involved in social groups or volunteer to help others. Being alone makes things seem worse than they are.
- Do not use alcohol or illegal drugs, such as cocaine, amphetamines, or heroin, to "self-treat" your symptoms. A treatment plan that includes prescription medicine and regular visits to a health professional is much safer and more effective.
- Do not smoke or use other tobacco products. Smoking increases your risk of developing coronary artery disease. The use of smokeless (spit) tobacco increases your risk of developing cancer of the mouth, neck, throat, and digestive tract. Your risk of developing depression increases if you have coronary artery disease or cancer.
Preparing For Your Appointment
To prepare for your appointment, see the topic Making the Most of Your Appointment.
Before seeing your health professional, it may be helpful to keep a diary of your symptoms. You can help your health professional diagnose and treat your condition by being prepared to answer the following questions:
- How long have you been troubled with a depressed mood? What is your major symptom?
- What was happening in your life when the depressed mood started?
- How long have you had your symptoms? Do they come and go or are they always present?
- Have you ever had a similar problem in the past? If so, how was it treated?
- What makes your symptoms better or worse?
- Do
you have any other symptoms that may be related to your major symptom? Symptoms
may include:
- Rapid or irregular heartbeat.
- Nausea or vomiting.
- Numbness or weakness.
- Excessive sweating.
- Feeling like you are not able to get enough air (air hunger).
- Restlessness, irritability, or feeling on edge.
- Feelings of overwhelming anxiety or fear.
- What prescription or nonprescription medicines are you currently taking?
- Are you using alcohol or illegal drugs, such as marijuana or cocaine, to manage your symptoms?
- Have you ever attempted suicide?
- Has a family member or close friend attempted or committed suicide?
- Has anyone else in your family ever been diagnosed with a mental health problem, such as depression or an anxiety disorder?
- Are you taking a medicine to treat depression? What is the medicine? When did you start the medicine? What is the dose that you are taking? Have you or your health professional changed the dose?
- Do you have any health risks?
Other Places To Get Help
Organizations
| Mental Health America | |
| 2000 North Beauregard Street, 6th Floor | |
| Alexandria, VA 22311 | |
| Phone: | 1-800-969-NMHA (1-800-969-6642) referral service for help with depression (703) 684-7722 |
| Fax: | (703) 684-5968 |
| TDD: | 1-800-433-5959 |
| Web Address: | www.mentalhealthamerica.net |
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Mental Health America (formerly known as the National Mental Health Association) is a nonprofit agency devoted to helping people of all ages live mentally healthier lives. Its Web site has information about mental health conditions. It also addresses issues such as grief, stress, bullying, and more. It includes a confidential depression screening test for anyone who would like to take it. The short test may help you decide whether your symptoms are related to depression. |
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| National Suicide Prevention Lifeline | |
| Phone: | 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255) 1-888-628-9454 Spanish |
| TDD: | 1-800-799-4TTY (1-800-799-4889) |
| Web Address: | www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org |
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The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is a 24-hour, toll-free suicide prevention service. Crisis centers are located in 130 locations across the United States. Callers are routed to the closest provider of mental health and suicide prevention services. |
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Credits
| Author | Jan Nissl, RN, BS |
| Editor | Susan Van Houten, RN, BSN, MBA |
| Associate Editor | Tracy Landauer |
| Primary Medical Reviewer | Kathleen Romito, MD - Family Medicine |
| Primary Medical Reviewer | Martin Gabica, MD - Family Medicine |
| Specialist Medical Reviewer | Lisa S. Weinstock, MD - Psychiatry |
| Specialist Medical Reviewer | William H. Blahd, Jr., MD, FACEP - Emergency Medicine |
| Last Updated | December 8, 2008 |
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